“There’s a warm wind blowing
The stars are out,
and I’d really love to see you tonight”
ENGLAND DAN SEALS and JOHN FORD COLEY
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“There’s a warm wind blowing
The stars are out,
and I’d really love to see you tonight”
ENGLAND DAN SEALS and JOHN FORD COLEY
Posted in Blogfinger Presents, Ocean Grove in the news, Ocean Grove issues, Ocean Grove lifestyles, tagged Anti-Semitism in Ocean Grove, Ocean Grove United on August 3, 2026| 9 Comments »
Editorial by Paul Goldfinger, MD, Editor Blogfinger.net. Repost from 2023 in the Grove.
There has been no sign of “hate” in Ocean Grove (except for an occasional sign that says, “Hate has no home here.”)
Interestingly, it is impossible to find an accepted definition for the terms “hate speech” or “hate crime.” Miriam-Webster says that”hate speech” is defined as “speech expressing hatred of a particular group of people.” Even the Anti-Defamation League does not attempt to define these terms. They basically oppose discrimination of all types.
So this broad definition allows for the term to be used for all sorts of groups, so no particular group owns the complaint of “hate speech.” I don’t know how the Neptune Police define “hate crime,” but they did use the term in 2019. Their web site doesn’t clarify the term.
November, 2018: During 2018 Mischief Night, some individuals “vandalized cars with swastikas and racial slurs in Ocean Grove.” (APP 11/7/18) The Neptune Police Department said that they were not viewing the incident as a bias crime or anything “politically motivated.”
Deputy Mayor Carol Rizzo (a Grover) said , “The community should view this as simply ‘something that happened during Mischief Night. I don’t think we should give it anymore credence than that. ‘”
The descriptions of the event in the news did not include any antisemitic language, and swastikas are not necessarily antisemitic symbols. Some kids, like punk rockers, may draw a swastika without thinking of Jews. The “N word” was also found, according to the APP.
A representative, Joshua Cohen, of the NJ Regional Office of ADL said, “The swastika has become a ubiquitous symbol in graffiti, but it does not always carry “’antsemitic intent.’”
He also said, “A random swastika appearing in a neutral location is an entirely different proposition than compared to one on a synagogue.”
“Incidents involving the image found with no accompanying antisemitic imagery or writing on, say, a dumpster at a 7-Eleven or an overpass on the Garden State Parkway, fall into a category that the ADL has stopped including in its annual audit of anti-Jewish hate crimes. There is no indication that such cases specifically target Jews.”
Cohen concluded by saying, “Regardless of the specific intent, it would be a mistake to minimize the swastika. It shocks the conscience, and we all know what it is. It’s a hate symbol.”
The NTPD was going to investigate the possibility of a “hate crime,” but they have so far come up with nothing.
OGU joined forces with the OGHOA to fan the flames of controversy when other such incidents did not occur before or since that night.
But, the OGU/HOA combined complainers consortium (CCC) have invited the Anti-Defamation League (ADL), an international organization that fights antisemitism world-wide, to come here in January 2019 to “speak on this issue.”
Is this what the members of the Home Groaners want their organization to get involved with? And why is the HOA having any sort of joint activity with the highly partisan group ironically called Ocean Grove United.
It is almost laughable for the OGU and its ally the Home Groaners to jump on this bandwagon. Jews have been subject to all sorts of murder and mayhem since the times of the Romans, so the Jewish people have largely developed a thick skin over minor incidents such as what the OGU and HOA are jumping up and down over in Ocean Grove.
The ADL says, “Anti-Semitism is the belief or behavior hostile toward Jews just because they are Jewish.”
Is that what’s going on in the Grove? Doesn’t the ADL have some terrorism, synagogue shootings, or murders of civilians to spend their time with?
The truth is that anti-Semitism does not “have a home” in the Grove, and many Jewish people live here without such concerns.
Most popular sentiment in the Grove is to assume the Halloween vandalism to be the work of ignorant out-of-towners, probably kids looking for trouble. Most think that the incident should have been dropped as an indicator of bias in this town, and as a news story, it lasted about 24 hours, with no noise coming out of the Grove.
OGU, a group that seems to be in a deep sleep most of the time, reappears, like Brigadoon, whenever they find an excuse to complain about bias in the Grove. They say that the ADL meeting in January 2019 is “in response to the concerns of Ocean Grove residents.”
Perhaps they should tell us how many OG residents would like to see the big guns (ADL) brought into the Grove to satisfy those “concerns?”
In our recent piece about the “hate has no home here” signs, we had a flurry of opinions in the Comments, but hardly any concern about the Mischief Night event.
In America we live in a free society, one which is not perfect and where hate is sometimes expressed and where such hate needs to be opposed, but Ocean Grove is not such a place.
Addendum: This Blogfinger article below says a lot about Ocean Grove United:
OGU slams the Camp Meeting Association 2016
NICOLAI RIMSKY-KORSAKOV: “The Flight of the Bumblebee”
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Posted in Ocean Grove Great Auditorium, Ocean Grove lifestyles, Ocean Grove Musical Event, Photograph by Paul Goldfinger, Photography at The Jersey Shore, Photography: Ocean Grove Gallery, tagged music in Ocean Grove, The Great Auditorium on July 23, 2026| 2 Comments »
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RONALD NALDI performing “Mattinata” from his album Torn A Surriento–Neopolitan Songs and Romances
Posted in Blogfinger Presents, Ocean Grove events, Ocean Grove July 4, Ocean Grove lifestyles, Ocean Grove magic moments, Ocean Grove Main Avenue photo news on July 1, 2026|
The parade was a big hit on a beautiful day in Ocean Grove, New Jersey. Click one image and follow the arrows. Use the X on the left side to return to civilization.
The Blogfinger photo staff was busy: Jean Bredin, Eileen Goldfinger, Paul Goldfinger
Yes Virginia, there is a Louis Armstrong—live at the Newport Jazz Festival in 1960:
Posted in Blogfinger Presents, Ocean Grove lifestyles, Ocean Grove Town-wide Yard Sale 2017, Photography: Jersey Shore Gallery, Photography: Ocean Grove portraits, Postcards From Ocean Grove, tagged OceanGrove Townwide Yard Sale on June 22, 2026| 1 Comment »

All photos from today’s Ocean Grove Yard Sales. This is at Asbury Avenue—Vicki’s house; always a winner for yard sales, and a beautiful location besides. All photos by Paul Goldfinger. Blogfinger.net © Click to enlarge all photos.
By Paul Goldfinger, Editor @Blogfinger
For the third year in a row, the weather posed a threat to the Town-Wide Yard Sale. Last week we postponed the May 13th setting because of horrible rain. Today, May 20, we expected sunshine, but when we woke up we heard wind gusts, and then, looking out the window, we saw clouds. It was chilly at 60 degrees, and there were a few little showers late in the morning, causing sellers to open up, cover up, and then start again, often moving to the porch briefly. One out-of-towner was cold, so he bought a hoodie from us.

A little rain moved the action onto porches, but only for a few minutes. Blogfinger photo Mt. Hermon Way. ©
We estimate that the Grove had about 60 yard sale sites. We signed up 49, and there were a number of others that joined in without signing up–I met 3 of those without having to look very hard. Asbury Park also had a town sale today but they were expecting only 25, and that is over an area larger than the Grove. Our yard sale manager Vincent Cannavo said that the density of yard sales in our small town makes for a perfect location for an annual town-wide sale. Last year we outnumbered Bradley Beach. There is no data as to how many of our sellers failed to open up because of the weather, but I don’t think there were more than a few.
It’s impossible to know the number of attendees at our yard sales, Yard sailors told me that they had a fairly successful day with a steady stream of shoppers despite the lack of sunshine.
As usual, the best thing about the TWYS is the social component. We met Grovers whom we never met before and we saw others whom we see only occasionally, as well as visitors some of whom are regulars in town and who love the yard sales. They come, often stay over, eat out, and patronize our merchants.
Eileen and I met a multi-lingual visitor (4 languages) who bought bowls from us and did a fine impression of a Parisian waiter. A women from Staten Island gave me a lecture as to why rubbing lemongrass oil over your liver was better than Lipitor for cholesterol. Exchanging stories and observations about our town is always fun, especially with strangers who give us some “out-of-the bubble” points of view.

A couple of out-of towners won the fashion award on Mt. Hermon Way. He bought a record “Stand By Me” but she already was. Blogfinger photo. 5/20/17.
Many Grovers and visitors stopped by our place to talk about Blogfinger, and, without exception, they were supportive. Some commenters came out of the closet to help me match the face with the pseudonym. Aggravated Curmudgeon’s wife told me that Curmudgeon is actually a nice guy and isn’t always aggravated. He was home selling stuff.

Conversations are always part of the action and are very entertaining and informative. 5/20/17. Paul Goldfinger photo on Delaware Avenue.
We met visitors from the outer reaches of New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Cincinnati, and New York—Staten Island, Brooklyn and Manhattan. Some of the Grovers we spoke to are new residents in town including Lucy and Reena (both of whom had sales today.)

This crew on Delaware Avenue put their sale on hold for a pizza break in their side yard. They are candidates for our OG lifestyles award. Blogfinger photo. © 5/20/17.
Several early visitors at our sale were looking for vinyl, but what interested me was that one was a young man. It turns out young music lovers are taking a keen interest in collecting and playing vinyl. An antique dealer from a neighboring town told me that sales of “old’ antiques were down because young couples aren’t interested, but there is enhanced interest in vintage stuff such as from the forties and the fifties.
So thanks to all of you Grovers who participated. It actually can be fairly stressful and difficult to prepare for a yard sale, and when it’s over, you’re still not done working. But despite that, it is fun.
MISS PEGGY LEE:
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Daniel Hickman, luthier. “Don’t Fret Music.” Jersey Shore Arts Center. Paul Goldfinger photograph © Here Daniel checks the “playability” and alignment of an instrument that he has been working on. 7/18/17. Click to enlarge
By Paul Goldfinger, Editor @Blogfinger.net
Did you ever dream of traveling around the country in a van with a rock band? Well, Daniel Hickman of Tennessee, currently of Ocean Grove, did just that for five years when he was in his twenties. But he wasn’t a musician. He was a technician who made sure that the group’s guitars were fit as a fiddle. Daniel loved the experience; is there any doubt? ——– especially if you read Keith Richards biography.
Daniel has trained for years working on guitars—-repairing them and building them. He continued studying his craft with experts along the way as he traveled all over America with the Latin Rock group “de Sol.” He calls himself a “luthier” (definition: “a maker of stringed instruments such as violins or guitars.”)
Daniel comes from an artistic family and he probably inhaled guitar music living near Nashville. His career as a luthier has been progressing since 2005. After that rock gig, he moved to New Jersey and found himself with a very special business opportunity at the Jersey Shore Arts Center in Ocean Grove (66 South Main Street in Neptune) where he has had a workshop/studio since 2015 called “Don’t Fret Music.”
Daniel is grateful to the late Herb Herbst and the staff at the JSAC for providing him with a rare situation. He not only builds and repairs guitars and other stringed instruments,, but he has begun a program to provide lessons in guitar, piano, and uke. Dan has recruited a talented young teacher to work with students of all ages, and the lessons are given in a separate space off Dan’s workshop. He also repairs amps and he is moving into “retail.” Daniel plans to develop a “full service guitar shop and music store.” His shop is downstairs off the parking lot, with a private entrance to the left.
At the age of 32, Daniel is ambitious and enthused. “We are in the infancy of Don’t Fret Music.”
Daniel’s workshop/studio is a fascinating place, and to watch him work, you get the impression that he is highly competent. He worked on my guitar–he is an exacting craftsman.
Daniel is excited about the future of the Jersey Shore Arts Center. “There is a lot going on here,” he says; “The venue is full of talented artists in residence ,some of whom paint, do screen printing, social media, and photography.” There also is an acting ensemble “La Strada.” He wants to be supportive of his artist colleagues at JSAC.
One of his ambitions is to see a variety of new music performances in the JSAC theater. He hopes for bluegrass and jazz among the choices. This ambition seems very real given the recent downsizing of the secular programming in the Great Auditorium and the real need for some musical variety to satisfy OG’s diverse demographics and to balance against the music scene in Asbury Park.
Blogfinger will help promote new music and arts programs in Ocean Grove. It sounds like the JSAC may be on the threshold of something more than yoga and children’s ballet. Currently there is an arts show going on. Call them for details.
Daniel’s shop is open Tuesday through Saturday 3 pm -7 pm except Saturday which is 11 am to 5 pm. Call 732 361 5060 or DontFretNJ@gmail.com or the web site: DontFretNJ.com.
And, for the record, Daniel lives in Ocean Grove and he “loves the town.” It makes him happy because he knows his neighbors, people say hello, and the town is charming. Daniel knows most of the business people in the Grove and he feels at home here.
de Sol “Blanco y Negro.”
Here is a link to a 2018 piece about “Don’t Fret.”
Posted in Ocean Grove lifestyles, Ocean Grove magic moments on June 5, 2026| 1 Comment »
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Summer Saturday night in the Grove—-at Nagle’s. Paul Goldfinger photograph © 2015.
THE DANLEERS (1958)
Posted in Ocean Grove lifestyles, tagged Ocean Grove jewel on June 4, 2026| 2 Comments »

Ocean Grove. 113 Mt. Hermon Way. Click to enlarge. Built 1880. HSOG Beersheba Award winner. Paul Goldfinger photo. Our house. Visit us and other Victorian jewels at the June 27, 2026 Town-Wide Yard Sale.
Gull wing roof. This Victorian home was much smaller when it was built. It once had up and down wrap-around porches. Over the years it was turned into a mishmash with a masonry lower porch floor, stairs, and wrought-iron railings.
Brought back (literally to 1880) in two stages: 2002 and 2005. The frame of the original front door was found where the middle downstairs window is now. A hidden staircase was found in the kitchen. Visit our backyard garden by Eileen.
BILL FRISELL and PETRA HADEN
Posted in Blogfinger Presents, Ocean Grove July 4 Parade, Ocean Grove lifestyles, Ocean Grove magic moments, tagged Jersey Bounce with Connie Evingson, July 4 parade in Ocean Grove on May 28, 2026|
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A. Park as seen from Ocean Grove across Wesley Lake. Paul Goldfinger photograph © c. 2014. click to enlarge RE-POST 2018.
By Paul Goldfinger, Editor@ Blogfinger.net Photos and text. Relevant in 2018 regarding the contrasts between Asbury Park and Ocean Grove.
In case you haven’t noticed, according to last Sunday’s NY Times, Asbury Park, at least the part by the ocean, is a huge success attracting hot-shots from all over the mid-Atlantic to this “beach destination.” It seems that the turning point is the new 110 room Asbury Hotel, a brilliantly conceived venue which the chief designer, Anda Andrei, calls “luxury with modesty.”
According to the Times, the “City by the Sea” has officially risen from the ashes and has become a place where “everyone and everything” is happening. Below are some of the observations reported by the Times in their featured article in the “Next Stop” series on Sunday, July 10, 2016, written by Eric Lipton, a Pulitzer Prize winning journalist:
“IStar is the NYC based real estate company that owns all 35 acres of beachfront land. Madison Marquette is the company in charge of leasing retail space at the beachfront. These companies plan to invest over $1 billion in AP over the next 10 years.”
Regarding the demographics of those who populate the scene in AP, it is described as an “eclectic mix of professionals, families, young bar hoppers, and a large gay population—-all of them across income levels.”
The author of the article said, “Now the rebirth of Asbury Park is no longer in question. The only question that does remain is how much of Asbury’s character will be retained as it becomes a summertime mecca again.”
The executive in charge of iStar told the Times that “his company is determined not to turn Asbury Park into Disneyland.”
You can already get a feel for that when you check out the eating establishments on the boards—no pizza slices and French fries for them.
“The music scene is still the element that holds Asbury Park together with at least eight venues featuring live music.”
Downtown more than two dozen restaurants and bars comprise an eclectic collection of fine shops, galleries, and bakeries. The Festhall and Biergarten across the lake from OG is filled with “over 700 patrons on busy weekend nights.”
Clearly this Times article was aimed at a crowd that would respond to the “Brooklyn by the beach” nickname, but when Eric Lipton wondered about retaining the original AP “character,” it wasn’t clear what image he had in mind.
The article failed to consider that AP is a city that consists of more than just a destination for glitterati. There are people who live there who are ordinary folks—not hipsters, and they bring a beautiful down-home, multi-racial sensibility to the City which has deeper roots than fancy restaurants and cool destinations. There is a tapestry in Asbury Park, not just designer clothes.
Also there is no recognition in the article of the state of affairs in some parts of town west of the tracks, the poverty, the unemployment, the poor condition of Main Street, and the pervasive crime problems, primarily surrounding the considerable drug scene over there.
And as we all know who live in this area, Asbury Park is not isolated—it has neighbors. Regarding the “eclectic mix” that visits A. Park, the author says that the mix is “in striking contrast to the more stuffy (and staid) nearby beach towns, like Spring Lake.”
Uh, excuse me, but if you are going to contrast Asbury to a nearby town, there is an actual striking contrast with next door Ocean Grove, just south of A. Park—-a much more interesting place than “staid” Spring Lake.
There is a small reference to OG in a side bar which, like most inattentive media, gets it wrong about us—painting us as some shriveled-up museum-like religious town. He says, “Ocean Grove is a dry town built around religious summer camps—God’s Square Mile is its slogan—-so no bars with music there. But it is a museum of Victorian architecture.”
Eric Lipton mentions our ” more than a dozen bed and breakfast options,” but who would want to visit our embalmed town? The dynamic interaction between these two beach towns which is developing, goes unrecognized by the media. Ocean Grove may not be where the cool crowd goes, but our history, diversity, beauty, quietude, and family lifestyles provide quite an impressive and favorable comparison to the sparkling high life going on across Wesley Lake.
So, what will Ocean Grove become by comparison as AP morphs into a very special place with its own character, fame, and attraction? Will we evolve into a historical prototype of small town America with a famous Victorian architecture, a religious flavor, a unique character, a classy culture, and a wonderful personality of its own that will complement what is happening to the north?
Or will we be left in the dustbin of history as a place with stifling crowding, insoluble parking concerns, a has-been Victorian success story, condos all over town, a pseudo-Asbury at the North End, and a town devoid of community—– known for gizmos and Abba on the Pathway but no art, culture, or values of its own? All that will be left to focus on will be the Camp Meeting Association with its specific mission and lifestyle—worthy as part of the community, but less impressive all by itself.
CELIA CRUZ: (Live) Turn on the music and then look at the gallery below.
An Asbury Park gallery—-the other side of A. Park, by Paul Goldfinger @Blogfinger.net. Click on one and follow the arrows. Use the small X upper left to return to Blogfinger proper (or improper as the case may be.)