By Eileen and Paul Goldfinger, Editors at Blogfinger.net
Scene: It is a stifling peak-season sunny July Saturday afternoon. The Grove is crowded and there is nary a parking space except for one across from where we are standing.
Eileen and I are gardening on the Delaware Ave. side of our house. A car pulls into that sole remaining space, and a young man emerges. He looks around and then walks over to us.
He: Can I park here?
We: Yes, but be sure you are close to the curb.
He: Checking his tires. “I work at the Brick Wall in Asbury, and someone told me that I can park in Ocean Grove for free.”
We: It’s not only the workers who park here, but your customers as well, and we’re not happy with the idea.
He: Oh….I’m sorry.
We: No need to apologize. It is legal for you to park here.
He: I’ve been paying over $100.00 week to park for work.
We: Wow. (We felt bad for him….he obviously is a “working stiff.”)
He: Well, thank you.
We: It’s OK. Bye.
He: Smiles and heads towards the New Jersey Avenue Bridge across Wesley Lake to A. Park.
We: We agree that A. Park is exploiting their workers by neither providing parking or paying for parking. $100.00 is a lot for this worker. We should feel compassion for these young people, but this is Asbury’s problem to solve, and it is a reasonable concern for Grovers.
The AP City Council refused a plea from Neptune to help us with this parking situation which is their fault, and now they demand that we open our bridge-gates.
“And the boys from the casino dance with their shirts open like Latin lovers on the shore
Chasing all them silly New York virgins by the score
“And Sandy, the aurora is rising behind us
This pier lights our carnival life forever
Oh, love me tonight, for I may never see you again
Hey, Sandy girl
My, my, baby…”
By Paul Goldfinger, Editor@ Blogfinger.net Photos and text. Relevant in 2018 regarding the contrasts between Asbury Park and Ocean Grove.
In case you haven’t noticed, according to last Sunday’s NY Times, Asbury Park, at least the part by the ocean, is a huge success attracting hot-shots from all over the mid-Atlantic to this “beach destination.” It seems that the turning point is the new 110 room Asbury Hotel, a brilliantly conceived venue which the chief designer, Anda Andrei, calls “luxury with modesty.”
According to the Times, the “City by the Sea” has officially risen from the ashes and has become a place where “everyone and everything” is happening. Below are some of the observations reported by the Times in their featured article in the “Next Stop” series on Sunday, July 10, 2016, written by Eric Lipton, a Pulitzer Prize winning journalist:
“IStar is the NYC based real estate company that owns all 35 acres of beachfront land. Madison Marquette is the company in charge of leasing retail space at the beachfront. These companies plan to invest over $1 billion in AP over the next 10 years.”
Regarding the demographics of those who populate the scene in AP, it is described as an “eclectic mix of professionals, families, young bar hoppers, and a large gay population—-all of them across income levels.”
The author of the article said, “Now the rebirth of Asbury Park is no longer in question. The only question that does remain is how much of Asbury’s character will be retained as it becomes a summertime mecca again.”
The executive in charge of iStar told the Times that “his company is determined not to turn Asbury Park into Disneyland.”
You can already get a feel for that when you check out the eating establishments on the boards—no pizza slices and French fries for them.
“The music scene is still the element that holds Asbury Park together with at least eight venues featuring live music.”
Downtown more than two dozen restaurants and bars comprise an eclectic collection of fine shops, galleries, and bakeries. The Festhall and Biergarten across the lake from OG is filled with “over 700 patrons on busy weekend nights.”
Clearly this Times article was aimed at a crowd that would respond to the “Brooklyn by the beach” nickname, but when Eric Lipton wondered about retaining the original AP “character,” it wasn’t clear what image he had in mind.
The article failed to consider that AP is a city that consists of more than just a destination for glitterati. There are people who live there who are ordinary folks—not hipsters, and they bring a beautiful down-home, multi-racial sensibility to the City which has deeper roots than fancy restaurants and cool destinations. There is a tapestry in Asbury Park, not just designer clothes.
Also there is no recognition in the article of the state of affairs in some parts of town west of the tracks, the poverty, the unemployment, the poor condition of Main Street, and the pervasive crime problems, primarily surrounding the considerable drug scene over there.
And as we all know who live in this area, Asbury Park is not isolated—it has neighbors. Regarding the “eclectic mix” that visits A. Park, the author says that the mix is “in striking contrast to the more stuffy (and staid) nearby beach towns, like Spring Lake.”
Uh, excuse me, but if you are going to contrast Asbury to a nearby town, there is an actual striking contrast with next door Ocean Grove, just south of A. Park—-a much more interesting place than “staid” Spring Lake.
There is a small reference to OG in a side bar which, like most inattentive media, gets it wrong about us—painting us as some shriveled-up museum-like religious town. He says, “Ocean Grove is a dry town built around religious summer camps—God’s Square Mile is its slogan—-so no bars with music there. But it is a museum of Victorian architecture.”
Eric Lipton mentions our ” more than a dozen bed and breakfast options,” but who would want to visit our embalmed town? The dynamic interaction between these two beach towns which is developing, goes unrecognized by the media. Ocean Grove may not be where the cool crowd goes, but our history, diversity, beauty, quietude, and family lifestyles provide quite an impressive and favorable comparison to the sparkling high life going on across Wesley Lake.
So, what will Ocean Grove become by comparison as AP morphs into a very special place with its own character, fame, and attraction? Will we evolve into a historical prototype of small town America with a famous Victorian architecture, a religious flavor, a unique character, a classy culture, and a wonderful personality of its own that will complement what is happening to the north?
Or will we be left in the dustbin of history as a place with stifling crowding, insoluble parking concerns, a has-been Victorian success story, condos all over town, a pseudo-Asbury at the North End, and a town devoid of community—– known for gizmos and Abba on the Pathway but no art, culture, or values of its own? All that will be left to focus on will be the Camp Meeting Association with its specific mission and lifestyle—worthy as part of the community, but less impressive all by itself.
CELIA CRUZ: (Live) Turn on the music and then look at the gallery below.
An Asbury Park gallery—-the other side of A. Park, by Paul Goldfinger @Blogfinger.net. Click on one and follow the arrows. Use the small X upper left to return to Blogfinger proper (or improper as the case may be.)
