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2018. Ocean Grove shoveler. Moe Demby photo. Blogfinger.net

 

 

Read the comments and Editor’s note below.

 

Yesterday,(1/18/24)  the OGHOA sent a memo to its members saying ,”Residents are reminded that the Township Committee has passed and will enforce an ordinance requiring all Township residents to keep sidewalks abutting their property clear of snow and ice. The ordinance requires that snow and ice be removed within 12 daylight hours of a snowfall.”

It goes on to say that summonses will be issued to those who do not comply, as was done last winter. The OGHOA also warned those who are away when there is a snowstorm to make “arrangements for snow removal.” This is a big issue because so many OG houses are vacant much of the time  in the winter.

This 2024 HOA memo makes it sound like the ordinance was just passed earlier this year. However, ordinance 13-2 was actually written in 1988 and it has never been changed.  It’s not clear that it, like some other ordinances in town, was ever enforced in the past. The law also says that if you do not comply, the Township will do the work for you and then slap a lien onto your property tax bill.

Rick Cuttrell, the Township Clerk, was less rigid about the possible enforcement of this law, especially given all the logistical problems that would occur.  He said, “If you don’t do it, you are at risk.”

He said that last year there was a complaint by Ocean Grover Ken Buckley of Broadway who slipped on some sidewalk ice and nearly had a terrible injury. Ken asked for better enforcement of the ordinance for safety reasons, and the Township Committee promised to do just that.

Cuttrell reminisced about how he and others who grew up in the Grove went around town to shovel walks. But these days, that is an uncertain proposition. He said that the hardware store in town has a list of properties that they take  responsiblity for.

Whenever there is a significant snowfall or ice storm in Ocean Grove, the NTPD usually has its hands full with traffic problems, downed lines and accidents.   And the Township usually is overwhelmed by trying to plow and clear the streets, much less the sidewalks.  Also, to “clear the ice away” is impossible in freezing weather.  The best that can be done for ice is to sprinkle ice melt on it.

It’s hard to imagine how this ordinance can be enforced predictably and equally, so there may be some issues of equal justice under the law.

In addition, there are some questions having to do with signage and moving cars to the correct side. Remember, there is to be no parking on the north and west sides of our streets, some of which have signs, while others do not. But regardless of signs, this rule is supposed to be followed.  Then how will the towing be handled?

As for the Home Groaners Association, it was so nice of them to send that one paragraph warning around. But have they given any thought to the problems inherent to this situation and all its ramifications?  Maybe their next meeting should be about this problem, taxes, winter crime, solutions to flooding, etc instead of worrying about health insurance.

 

NOTE:  OG HARDWARE IS NOT SHOVELING SNOW THIS YEAR. (2025)  Their decision relates to insurance concerns.   Maybe an ambitious teen will come by, as I and my friends did when we were kids, but now, don’t hold your breath.    PG

 

 

Update Feb, 1, 2025:   The Ocean Grove Home Groaners Association, now known as the OG Community  Association  had a meeting last week and officially announced that “unshoveled sidewalks should be reported to the Neptune Township Code Enforcement Department.”  And they offered the phone number of the Code  department.

But Blogfinger will consider that number to be “classified” to keep those misanthropes, ie those HOA blabbermouths, from  reporting  on their neighbors.

And, to add insult to injury, they proudly proclaim that “The mission of the Ocean Grove Community Association is to enhance the quality of life in Ocean Grove.”

To show us how out of touch the “Community Association” is,  they think that they can improve the quality of life among We-the -People by squealing on each other.  They advocate that we rat on our neighbors; that we turn in our friends; that we tattle on fellow Grovers; and perhaps we should call them informers, whistle blowers or stool pigeons. And if charged  will the accused be fined?   What do you think? And will reporting our neighbors to the authorities result in a cleared sidewalk?

Why would anyone want to associate with an association that is clueless like that?   Do they want to incite anger; do they want their neighbors to grab their pitchforks and march on the Mother Ship?   Is this how they plan to “enhance quality of life?”

And, here is a “Shoveler’s Tale.”   We had some adventure regarding shoveling. You can join the fun by sending an anecdote to us.   Blofinger@verizon.net

 

.In the past it was hard to find a shoveler.  When I was a kid my friends and I used to travel around the hood and make a few bucks”. But such teen workers are rare.

 

2026:

a. Now people are advertising on NextDoor:  Either shovelers  or folks needing to be shoveled out. But there are a variety of  shoveler themes, so watch out for schemers or for those who need help or can’t find any

b. One guy in Asbury Park is looking for work on Next Door.  So he made an appointment with a Grover along with an agreed price.  An hour before he was due to arrive, he texted that he will be on time.  But later he never showed up. Meanwhile an actual shoveler showed up but was turned away.

c. A Grover stared a business providing shovelers.    But she was oversubscribed and had to cancel some jobs or just failed to show up at the expected time. Lt the beer beware

d. Two young men placed ads, made an appt. for the next day, showed up exactly on time and did a great job.

e. Cost:  You can make a deal over the phone, but when the shoveler showed up, he looked at the job an raised the price.   Typical:   $50-150.00.  Remember, the job gets more expensive if melting snow becomes hard as rocks as the temperatures drop.

 

PEGGY LEE:    “I’ll Get By”

 

 

KATE AND ANNA McGARRIGLE: “Talk to Me of Mendocino”

 

 

This lucky bug sits contentedly in a rare OG driveway. Don't be rude and block his egress, or his people will be very mad. Paul Goldfinger photo. Undated. ©

This lucky bug, Mr. Blue,  sits contentedly in a rare OG driveway. Don’t be rude and block his egress, or his people will be very mad.  His theme song, by the Fleetwoods,, is below  Paul Goldfinger photo. 2015

 

By Paul Goldfinger, Editor@Blogfinger.net

This conversation was begun in the context of storm news, as a snow storm hit Ocean Grove on January 27, 2015.  Comments are posted  chronologically here instead of the usual location.   Editing might be required for clarity, grammar, spelling, and sanity.

Mr. Right   Jan. 27, 2015 —–“Something needs to be said about parking etiquette. If one neighbor spends 30 minutes digging his car out only for his **#$@% neighbor to pull into that spot as soon as he leaves, that is wrong! In the past, diggers have placed garbage cans, cones, etc. to hold their spot, and as far as I am concerned, that is perfectly ethical to do, even though the police will not back you up if someone removes the can and parks there anyhow.”

Marie Coppinger. Jan. 27, 2015—-   “May I comment on “parking etiquette”? I have been in O.G. for many years and this comes up every year. These are public streets. You cannot “hold” a parking space just because you shoveled it out.  How would I know who shoveled any given space? And if I do park in my neighbor’s spot, it is because some one has parked in the space I recently shoveled. Let’s be reasonable.” 

Blogfinger.  Marie is correct that this topic has appeared before, but some subjects are worth rehashing.  Here is a link to July 2013 when there were many comments about this subject.   holding spaces link

Plump Mike.  Jan 28.   “I guess Marie  took her neighbor’s parking spot. If each homeowner took the time to dig out one space near their home, making it easy to enter and exit, then this wouldn’t be as much an issue. It’s  a shame that OG taxpayers don’t have a space reserved for each home like they have in many north Jersey towns. If you could dig out your space, it would be there for you when you get home from the grocery store.  Taxpayers should get a break from the town on the parking situation, especially in the winter where it can be a hardship to walk four blocks in the cold.” 

Pam.  Jan 28.  “It is a shame that as tax payers we aren’t entitled to one parking spot. Nevertheless my husband and I try to show courtesy to our neighbors even in the summer and other seasons. We try very hard to park in the same spots every time thus leaving spots free for our neighbors to park in front of their houses.

“I wish something could be done for our OG elderly who should be able to park in their spot. It’s hard for them to have to carry groceries or maneuver in the snow if their car is a ways from their houses; and they shouldn’t have to search for a parking spot during the height of the summer. If only a little civility could be shown to our neighbors and the elderly. Then we could get busy figuring out a way to provide parking for tourists and for those owning commercial trucks so they don’t take our spots away.”

Mary Lou.  Jan 28.  “We are all pretty respectful of each others “parking territory” on my street. I like to park in the usual space nearest to my front door because I leave for work at 6 am in the morning. On a dark, icy winter morning, I appreciate the fact that I have a short distance to get to my car. During the summer, I don’t care if I’m parked at a distance.”

Doubting Thomas.  Jan 28.  This reminds me of internet etiquette, which is still evolving.  Rules of politeness  must be written down and acknowledged by most civilized citizens if they are to be honored, but such rules don’t exist for Grovers with snow drifts.  So we must rely on the instincts of residents who perhaps have certain values in their DNA, or, at, least in their subconscious where common themes exist based on our culture.  Having said that, do unto others as you would have them do unto you, because the NTPD won’t get in the middle of this unless there is blood on the snow.

Embury Resident.   Jan. 29.     This is intended for the parking etiquette conversation. I have a driveway and only come down on weekends. I try to be a good neighbor and pay someone to clean my (empty) driveway & sidewalk after a snow fall. I did this yesterday. He cleaned everything, only to call me today to let me know that one of my “neighbors” threw all the snow he shoveled from his property onto my driveway. Not very neighborly.

Paul Devine.  Jan. 30.  I am not in OG many weekends in the winter. Without reserved spots neighbors are able to use the spot which eases parking for our wonderful neighbors. I do agree that something should be done with cars that are warehoused on the street and not used.

Jo Ann Marino. Jan 30.   Homeowners in Lavallette who do not have a driveway pay an annual fee to the town for a designated parking space on the street near or outside their home. A win win situation.

Paul Goldfinger.  Jan 30.  Jo Ann—There are a number of constituencies in Ocean Grove including tourists, renters, merchants and others.  The group that is ignored in this conversation are the homeowners who live here year round or part time. They have been ignored as far as the parking situation is concerned.  I totally agree that we too should receive a reserved space in front of our homes. This is a common solution around the state of New Jersey.

Wisher. Feb. 1—I am bothered that few people shovel. Now ice and snow have solidified around cars, and cannot be removed. So instead of winter in New England, the scene looks more like Arctic Station Ocean Grove.  There are many able-bodied hipsters renting in my Asbury Ave. neighborhood with nice cars and no shovel. Out of the whole two blocks around me, it was just me and another older guy shoveling our spaces. Then we pull out, and someone is there in the space when we get back.

It is a shame because it is great exercise and a way to meet people through simple acts of kindness.

 

 

 

Snow Globe

Photo by Rich Amole @Blogfinger.

Photo by Rich Amole @Blogfinger.  2014

By Rich Amole, Blogfinger history reporter/researcher.

Paul:

“The best type of snow is the one that doesn’t need to be shoveled.  Above  is a real cool Snow Globe with the Great Auditorium inside.  Snow Globes were designed to be paper weights but ended up being more of a collectible item of places visited.

Originally of European origin, they crossed the Atlantic in the 1920’s with the first patented one in the late 1920’s in the USA.  Some of these marvelous items have music boxes attached.   I could venture a guess on when this one was manufactured, but perhaps a reader may fill us in or even own one.

 

CINCINNATI POPS:   “Lara’s Theme” from Dr. Zhivago.

 

 

 

 

Parenting in the Grove.

Grove Hall. Ocean Grove.  This is why young moms are young. Paul Goldfinger photo.

 

FRANKIE LYMON:  “Why Do Fools Fall in Love?”

 

 

The Casino and the White Whale: works in progress. Is that good? Paul Goldfinger © 2016.

The Casino and the White Whale: works in progress.   Is that good? Click to enlarge. Paul Goldfinger © 2016.

IL DIVO AND KRISTIN CHENOWETH

 

 

 

By Paul Goldfinger and Charles Layton.   Editors, Blogfinger.net.  August 2012.  Paul Goldfinger photographs—see show below.

 

Ocean Grove becomes transformed late at night. Another side of the town’s beauty — at once calmer and more dramatic — emerges.

Streets, porches, vegetation and storefront displays turn ghostly and mysterious. Over on the Asbury side, some of the murals on the Casino (like the one above) become downright scary.

The contrasts of encompassing darkness, silvery moon and spots of artificial light point up architectural features that are less obvious in the brassy light of the day. Sounds strike the ear differently; the ocean surf suggests the breathing of some giant, sleeping thing.

As humans withdraw from view, wild creatures begin to roam noiselessly – a rabbit grazing on a darkened lawn, a possum scuttling in the shadow of a curb.

Walking through town at midnight, one is surrounded by a world filled with secrets.

 

In an effort to convey that feeling, we offer a multimedia show: a collection of nocturnal photos  by Paul Goldfinger and a musical performance by Ben Webster on tenor sax, Oscar Peterson on piano and Ray Brown on bass.

The tune is  “In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning.”

 

To enjoy this sight/sound combination, click on the audio arrow below. Then, as the music plays, put your cursor on the photo slide show and use the tool that appears to freeze a frame in place or to move forward or backward from one photo to another. — Charles Layton

 

 

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Ft Myers, Fla. Feb. 2020. Paul Goldfinger action photo ©

 

FRANK SINATRA.

 

Ocean Grove near the pier. Paul Goldfinger photo.  7/1/19. Blogfinger.net   Click to enlarge the image.

 

FRANK SINATRA:

 

 

 

 

In recent days, many folks were finally able to get their cars out from under the snow, but there was widespread anxiety regarding where to park when they returned to town. Some people decided to place chairs or garbage pails to save their spaces.  For many, the decision was complicated, while for others it was simple.

So we  at Blogfinger.net  decided to do a poll.  It is different from the one which we ran in the summer, because the number of parking spaces were not reduced then. In addition, at this time,  one had to factor in that people paid money to clear their spaces or they worked hard themselves to do so.

One commenter on the blog said that she hoped there would be a “special place in hell” for anyone who would take “her” space.

This poll is basically a “yes or no” deal, but you can comment below if you want to expand on how you feel.  We ask for the honor system:  don’t read the comments or look at the results until after you vote.

Note that our polls are not scientific, but they are fun.

Thanks,  Paul  Goldfinger @Blogfinger.    2026, the poll is closed.

 

Normal heart rhythm suddenly deteriorates into ventricular fibrillation. Internet ECG

 

By Paul Goldfinger, MD, FACC.  Editor, Blogfinger.net.

I was covering the all-night shift in the ER at LaGuardia Hospital in Queens. As a cardiology resident at Mt. Sinai Medical Center in Manhattan, I wasn’t supposed to moonlight, but many of us did it anyhow.

LaGuardia Hospital was the main facility for HIP (Health Insurance Plan of Greater NY)–which was one of the earliest HMO’s.   It was a run-of-the-mill neighborhood hospital.

I had read a paper in a cardiology journal called “Blind Defibrillation.” It came out after coronary care units had been invented. The CCU experience taught us that the main cause of death during a heart attack (acute myocardial infarction—acute MI) was a fatal but reversible rhythm disturbance called VF or ventricular fibrillation.

In the CCU, all patients with heart attacks wore electrodes for continuous ECG monitoring, so that is how we learned about VF. But we also learned that we could save the life of such a patient by giving them a timely electric shock to the chest using a device called a defibrillator.

Of course, you all know about that from TV, but back then, it was new and exciting. In the CCU all patients were monitored, so we always had ECG evidence of VF before we defibrillated a patient. If a patient on the med/surgical floors who was not on a monitor had a cardiac arrest, we always did an ECG before using the defibrillator, however, that did waste some time.

But what if someone out of the hospital, with a classic history of myocardial infarction (chest pain, sweating, shock) had a cardiac arrest?   The ambulance crew,  who then  did not have access to an ECG machine or a defibrillator, would bring them in doing CPR.

Wouldn’t it be reasonable to not waste time getting an ECG?  After all, “time is muscle” as they said then and now.   Just go ahead and shock them even without ECG documentation (ie “blind defibrillation ” as described in that journal article.)  The idea was a bit controversial at first.

Well, that night, a patient came into the ER at LaGuardia with a history suggesting an MI. He was talking to us and was placed on a stretcher, but before the ECG electrodes could be applied, he had a cardiac arrest and went unconscious with no pulse or respirations. I asked the nurse for the paddles  and shocked him even without ECG evidence (i.e. blind defibrillation). His pulse came back immediately, and he opened his eyes and looked around. It seemed like magic—a miracle.

Looking back on it, the story would have been perfect if he said, “What’s up, doc?”  But he said, “What happened?”

The nurse and I were thrilled. We started an IV anti-arrhythmic medication and then we had coffee.

These days, Emergency Medical Technicians can shock people in the field, although they do get ECG evidence with current equipment. Some machines won’t deliver a shock unless it reads VF when the paddles are placed. But if the ECG reader isn’t working, they should do blind defibrillation.

Defibrillators are now available in airplanes and stadiums. Some high risk patients have internal defibrillators implanted which can sense if VF is occurring, and they will deliver a shock on their own.  And yet, even today, there might be a situation, falling between the cracks, when blind defibrillation might save someone’s life.

Another new variation on this theme is that an “ambulance drone” can be sent to the victim of an out-of-hospital cardiac arrest.  A person standing by can place the paddles on the chest, as instructed by the drone operator by phone,  and then hit the button.  This saves the time of waiting for an ambulance and it significantly improves the survival rate of sudden death outside of hospital from 8% to about 90%. But currently this technology is not widely used in the US.

www.tudelft.nl/en/ide/research/research-labs/applied-labs/ambulance-drone/

 

THE BEATLES:   “Across the Universe”

“Words are flowing out like endless rain into a paper cup,
They slither while they pass, they slip away across the universe
Pools of sorrow, waves of joy are drifting through my open mind,
Possessing and caressing me.”

Weeping cypress  over 25 years old in Ocean Grove garden. 113 Mt. Hermon Way/Delaware Ave..    Eileen Goldfnger photo. 2/23/26. Blizzard day.

AARON COPLAND.   “GROVERS’ CORNERS.”  FROM  OUR TOWN.   “Music For the Movies.”     From the soundtrack of the  Ken Burns documentary   The War.  (WWII)

 

2/22/26 Paul Goldfinger.  Mt. Hermon Way. Ocean Grove, NJ, USA.      9 pm.  M 10

 

Johnny Mathis: