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Barra de Navidad, Mexico. 1988. Award winning photograph © Paul Goldfinger

Barra de Navidad, Mexico. 1988. Award winning photograph  Paul Goldfinger.  Click image to enlarge.

This image  (scanned from the published print) won first prize for the Pfizer Labs Calendar  contest for 1987-88—–I was Miss August.  The calendars were distributed around the world.   I won six times, the most for any physician.

After that I gave up color for the world of black and white photography;  returning to color only after seeing the results on-line and starting Blogfinger in 2009.

As a member of the visiting faculty at the University of Guadalajara Medical School, Eileen, the 2 boys, and I got to spend a weekend at Barra de Navidad, a non-touristy farming and fishing community on the Gulf, in the State of Jalisco, near the school. This door caught my eye while walking down a dirt street.

Below is the “blurb” that was part of the calendar.  There was one for each of the 12 winners.  I was a bit more rotund back then.

From the Pfizer Labs calendar 1988.

From the Pfizer Labs calendar

 

MARIACHI REAL DE SAN DIEGO:

 

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By Paul Goldfinger, Editor @Blogfinger. 2014

There have been many discussions on Blogfinger in recent years regarding parking. Most of the time the discussions have been about meters or about whether Neptune is following State rules regarding parking, for example for condo developers. We also have discussed the problem of Asbury vagabonds parking in the Grove to escape their meters.   But, on occasion, someone will wonder why the homeowners in the Grove do not receive a reserved parking space. When this subject comes up, we usually hear that it is not feasible.

Here is our last piece on parking.  You should read about it again:     http://blogfinger.net/2013/02/21/parking-here-we-go-again-stirring-the-pot/

However, we have never asked this question in a poll, so we decided to do that and to frame it as asking whether one free space per building would be desirable to help alleviate the parking problems which those of us who actually live here experience.

Arguing about parking is great fun and a sport that is especially unique in this town.  This poll is not scientific but some science is not scientific.  What it is is  (do you know what is is?) a public opinion sampling which may give an idea as to how Ocean Grove feels about this question.  But don’t bet the farm on our results, and please don’t cheat by stuffing our digital ballot box and letting dead people vote or other chicanery.

 

Eileen: A Portrait

Taken on a slow boat to China. By Paul Goldfinger ©

Taken on a slow boat to China. By Paul Goldfinger © From the Eileen series.

NORA JONES:  This song, “The Nearness of You” was written by Hoagie Carmichael in 1938 for the movie “Romance in the Dark.”   It was sung in the film by an actress, but the hit version on the charts was by the Glenn Miller Orchestra with the vocal by Ray Eberle.

 

Norah Jones recorded it in 2002 for her album “Come Away With Me.”

 

Ain”t she sweet?

Julia West Howard, a Broadway star, retired to OG from 1937 till her death in 1948. She lived at 113 Mt. Hermon Way–my house. This was a publicity photo  (see the stamp). We wrote an article about her on Blogfinger last year. —PG

Link to the Julia article on Blogfinger:  Julia Link

Here’s a musical tribute to Julia–a song from the Roaring Twenties by Gene Austin:

Party time in the Grove…

Mt. Hermon Way. Ocean Grove, New Jersey. 2012. Paul Goldfinger photo. ©

Mt. Hermon Way. Ocean Grove, New Jersey. Paul Goldfinger photo. Click once.

 

 

STEPHANE WREMBEL. “Bistro Fada” from Midnight in Paris:

 

2018. Ocean Grove shoveler. Moe Demby photo. Blogfinger.net

 

Read the comments and Editor’s note below.

 

Yesterday,(1/18/24)  the OG HOMEOWNERS ASSOCIATION. sent a memo to its members saying ,”Residents are reminded that the Township Committee has passed and will enforce an ordinance requiring all Township residents to keep sidewalks abutting their property clear of snow and ice. The ordinance requires that snow and ice be removed within 12 daylight hours of a snowfall.”

It goes on to say that summonses will be issued to those who do not comply, as was done last winter. The OGHOA also warned those who are away when there is a snowstorm to make “arrangements for snow removal.” This is a big issue because so many OG houses are vacant much of the time  in the winter.

This 2024 HOA memo makes it sound like the ordinance was just passed earlier this year. However, ordinance 13-2 was actually written in 1988 and it has never been changed.  It’s not clear that it, like some other ordinances in town, was ever enforced in the past. The law also says that if you do not comply, the Township will do the work for you and then slap a lien onto your property tax bill.

Rick Cuttrell, the Township Clerk, was less rigid about the possible enforcement of this law, especially given all the logistical problems that would occur.  He said, “If you don’t do it, you are at risk.”

He said that last year there was a complaint by Ocean Grover Ken Buckley of Broadway who slipped on some sidewalk ice and nearly had a terrible injury. Ken asked for better enforcement of the ordinance for safety reasons, and the Township Committee promised to do just that.

Cuttrell reminisced about how he and others who grew up in the Grove went around town to shovel walks. But these days, that is an uncertain proposition. He said that the hardware store in town has a list of properties that they take  responsiblity for.

Whenever there is a significant snowfall or ice storm in Ocean Grove, the NTPD usually has its hands full with traffic problems, downed lines and accidents.   And the Township usually is overwhelmed by trying to plow and clear the streets, much less the sidewalks.  Also, to “clear the ice away” is impossible in freezing weather.  The best that can be done for ice is to sprinkle ice melt on it.

It’s hard to imagine how this ordinance can be enforced predictably and equally, so there may be some issues of equal justice under the law.

In addition there are some questions having to do with signage and moving cars to the correct side. Remember, there is to be no parking on the north and west sides of our streets, some of which have signs, while others do not. But regardless of signs, this rule is supposed to be followed.  Then how will the towing be handled?

As for the Home Groaners Association, it was so nice of them to send that one paragraph warning around.   But have they given any thought to the problems inherent to this situation and all its ramifications?  Maybe their next meeting should be about this problem, taxes, winter crime, solutions to flooding, etc instead of worrying about health insurance.

 

NOTE:  OG HARDWARE IS NOT SHOVELING SNOW THIS YEAR. (2025)  Their decision relates to insurance concerns.   Maybe an ambitious teen will come by, as I and my friends did when we were kids, but now, don’t hold your breath.    PG

 

 

Update Feb, 1, 2025:   The “Ocean Grove Home Groaners Association,” now known as the “OG Community  Association”  had a meeting last week and officially announced that “un-shoveled sidewalks should be reported to the Neptune Township Code Enforcement department.”  And they offered the phone number of the Code  department.

But Blogfinger will consider that Code  number to be “classified” to keep those misanthropes, ie those HOA blabbermouths, from  reporting  on their neighbors.

And to add insult to injury, they proudly proclaim that “The mission of the Ocean Grove Community Association is to enhance the quality of life in Ocean Grove.”

To show us how out of touch the “Community Association”  is,  they think that they can improve the quality of life among We-the -People by squealing on each other.  They advocate that we rat on our neighbors; that we turn in our friends; that we tattle on fellow Grovers; and perhaps we should call them informers, whistle blowers or stool pigeons.

And if charged  will the accused be fined?   What do you think? And will reporting our neighbors to the authorities result in a cleared sidewalk?

Why would anyone want to associate with an association that is clueless like that?   Do they want to incite anger; do they want their neighbors to grab their pitchforks and march on the Mother Ship?   Is this how they plan to “enhance quality of life?”

 

In the past it was hard to find a shoveler.  When I was a kid my friends and I used to travel around the hood and make a few bucks”. But such teen workers are rare.

 

 

2026 “Shovelers’ Tales.”  Update:

We had some adventures regarding shoveling. You can join the fun by sending an anecdote to us.   Blogfinger@verizon.net

a. Now people are advertising on NextDoor:  Either shovelers  or folks needing to be shoveled.   But there are a variety of  shoveler themes, so beware of  schemers.

b. One guy in Asbury Park is looking for work on Next Door.  So he made an appointment with a Grover along with an agreed price.  An hour before he was due to arrive, he texted that he will be on time.  But later he never showed up.  Meanwhile an actual shoveler showed up but was turned away.

c. A Grover started a business providing shovelers.    But it was oversubscribed and had to cancel some jobs .

d. Two young men from Spring Lakes  placed ads, made an appt. for the next day, showed up exactly on time and did a great job.

e. Cost:  You can make a deal over the phone, but when the shoveler shows up, he may look at the job and raise  the price.   Typical:   $50-$150.00.  Remember, the job gets more expensive if melting snow becomes hard as rocks as the temperatures drop.

f.  Share your shoveling experience:    Send us an anecdote to. Blogfinger@verizon.net

 

PEGGY LEE:    “I’ll Get By”

 

 

 

 

This lucky bug sits contentedly in a rare OG driveway. Don't be rude and block his egress, or his people will be very mad. Paul Goldfinger photo. Undated. ©

This lucky bug, Mr. Blue,  sits contentedly in a rare OG driveway. Don’t be rude and block his egress, or his people will be very mad.  His theme song, by the Fleetwoods,, is below  Paul Goldfinger photo. 2015

 

By Paul Goldfinger, Editor@Blogfinger.net

This conversation was begun in the context of storm news, as a snow storm hit Ocean Grove on January 27, 2015.  Comments are posted  chronologically here instead of the usual location.   Editing might be required for clarity, grammar, spelling, and sanity.

Mr. Right   Jan. 27, 2015 —–“Something needs to be said about parking etiquette. If one neighbor spends 30 minutes digging his car out only for his **#$@% neighbor to pull into that spot as soon as he leaves, that is wrong! In the past, diggers have placed garbage cans, cones, etc. to hold their spot, and as far as I am concerned, that is perfectly ethical to do, even though the police will not back you up if someone removes the can and parks there anyhow.”

Marie Coppinger. Jan. 27, 2015—-   “May I comment on “parking etiquette”? I have been in O.G. for many years and this comes up every year. These are public streets. You cannot “hold” a parking space just because you shoveled it out.  How would I know who shoveled any given space? And if I do park in my neighbor’s spot, it is because some one has parked in the space I recently shoveled. Let’s be reasonable.” 

Blogfinger.  Marie is correct that this topic has appeared before, but some subjects are worth rehashing.  Here is a link to July 2013 when there were many comments about this subject.   holding spaces link

Plump Mike.  Jan 28.   “I guess Marie  took her neighbor’s parking spot. If each homeowner took the time to dig out one space near their home, making it easy to enter and exit, then this wouldn’t be as much an issue. It’s  a shame that OG taxpayers don’t have a space reserved for each home like they have in many north Jersey towns. If you could dig out your space, it would be there for you when you get home from the grocery store.  Taxpayers should get a break from the town on the parking situation, especially in the winter where it can be a hardship to walk four blocks in the cold.” 

Pam.  Jan 28.  “It is a shame that as tax payers we aren’t entitled to one parking spot. Nevertheless my husband and I try to show courtesy to our neighbors even in the summer and other seasons. We try very hard to park in the same spots every time thus leaving spots free for our neighbors to park in front of their houses.

“I wish something could be done for our OG elderly who should be able to park in their spot. It’s hard for them to have to carry groceries or maneuver in the snow if their car is a ways from their houses; and they shouldn’t have to search for a parking spot during the height of the summer. If only a little civility could be shown to our neighbors and the elderly. Then we could get busy figuring out a way to provide parking for tourists and for those owning commercial trucks so they don’t take our spots away.”

Mary Lou.  Jan 28.  “We are all pretty respectful of each others “parking territory” on my street. I like to park in the usual space nearest to my front door because I leave for work at 6 am in the morning. On a dark, icy winter morning, I appreciate the fact that I have a short distance to get to my car. During the summer, I don’t care if I’m parked at a distance.”

Doubting Thomas.  Jan 28.  This reminds me of internet etiquette, which is still evolving.  Rules of politeness  must be written down and acknowledged by most civilized citizens if they are to be honored, but such rules don’t exist for Grovers with snow drifts.  So we must rely on the instincts of residents who perhaps have certain values in their DNA, or, at, least in their subconscious where common themes exist based on our culture.  Having said that, do unto others as you would have them do unto you, because the NTPD won’t get in the middle of this unless there is blood on the snow.

Embury Resident.   Jan. 29.     This is intended for the parking etiquette conversation. I have a driveway and only come down on weekends. I try to be a good neighbor and pay someone to clean my (empty) driveway & sidewalk after a snow fall. I did this yesterday. He cleaned everything, only to call me today to let me know that one of my “neighbors” threw all the snow he shoveled from his property onto my driveway. Not very neighborly.

Paul Devine.  Jan. 30.  I am not in OG many weekends in the winter. Without reserved spots neighbors are able to use the spot which eases parking for our wonderful neighbors. I do agree that something should be done with cars that are warehoused on the street and not used.

Jo Ann Marino. Jan 30.   Homeowners in Lavallette who do not have a driveway pay an annual fee to the town for a designated parking space on the street near or outside their home. A win win situation.

Paul Goldfinger.  Jan 30.  Jo Ann—There are a number of constituencies in Ocean Grove including tourists, renters, merchants and others.  The group that is ignored in this conversation are the homeowners who live here year round or part time. They have been ignored as far as the parking situation is concerned.  I totally agree that we too should receive a reserved space in front of our homes. This is a common solution around the state of New Jersey.

Wisher. Feb. 1—I am bothered that few people shovel. Now ice and snow have solidified around cars, and cannot be removed. So instead of winter in New England, the scene looks more like Arctic Station Ocean Grove.  There are many able-bodied hipsters renting in my Asbury Ave. neighborhood with nice cars and no shovel. Out of the whole two blocks around me, it was just me and another older guy shoveling our spaces. Then we pull out, and someone is there in the space when we get back.

It is a shame because it is great exercise and a way to meet people through simple acts of kindness.

 

 

 

Snow Globe

Photo by Rich Amole @Blogfinger.

Photo by Rich Amole @Blogfinger.  2014

By Rich Amole, Blogfinger history reporter/researcher.

Paul:

“The best type of snow is the one that doesn’t need to be shoveled.  Above  is a real cool Snow Globe with the Great Auditorium inside.  Snow Globes were designed to be paper weights but ended up being more of a collectible item of places visited.

Originally of European origin, they crossed the Atlantic in the 1920’s with the first patented one in the late 1920’s in the USA.  Some of these marvelous items have music boxes attached.   I could venture a guess on when this one was manufactured, but perhaps a reader may fill us in or even own one.

 

CINCINNATI POPS:   “Lara’s Theme” from Dr. Zhivago.

 

 

 

 

Parenting in the Grove.

Grove Hall. Ocean Grove.  This is why young moms are young. Paul Goldfinger photo.

 

FRANKIE LYMON:  “Why Do Fools Fall in Love?”

 

 

The Casino and the White Whale: works in progress. Is that good? Paul Goldfinger © 2016.

The Casino and the White Whale: works in progress.   Is that good? Click to enlarge. Paul Goldfinger © 2016.

IL DIVO AND KRISTIN CHENOWETH

 

 

 

By Paul Goldfinger and Charles Layton.   Editors, Blogfinger.net.  August 2012.  Paul Goldfinger photographs—see show below.

 

Ocean Grove becomes transformed late at night. Another side of the town’s beauty — at once calmer and more dramatic — emerges.

Streets, porches, vegetation and storefront displays turn ghostly and mysterious. Over on the Asbury side, some of the murals on the Casino (like the one above) become downright scary.

The contrasts of encompassing darkness, silvery moon and spots of artificial light point up architectural features that are less obvious in the brassy light of the day. Sounds strike the ear differently; the ocean surf suggests the breathing of some giant, sleeping thing.

As humans withdraw from view, wild creatures begin to roam noiselessly – a rabbit grazing on a darkened lawn, a possum scuttling in the shadow of a curb.

Walking through town at midnight, one is surrounded by a world filled with secrets.

 

In an effort to convey that feeling, we offer a multimedia show: a collection of nocturnal photos  by Paul Goldfinger and a musical performance by Ben Webster on tenor sax, Oscar Peterson on piano and Ray Brown on bass.

The tune is  “In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning.”

 

To enjoy this sight/sound combination, click on the audio arrow below. Then, as the music plays, put your cursor on the photo slide show and use the tool that appears to freeze a frame in place or to move forward or backward from one photo to another. — Charles Layton

 

 

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Ft Myers, Fla. Feb. 2020. Paul Goldfinger action photo ©

 

FRANK SINATRA.