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9/19/21.  Most of the huge Sea.Hear.Now Festival  crowd was on the beach, but some came to Cookman Ave. Most of the 40,000 in attendance were young  people.   There parking spilled over to Ocean Grove leaving us with our cars parked all weekend.  Paul Goldfinger photo.

 

Paul Goldfinger photo, Monday.    Because I complain, they call me “the morning after pill.”   On Monday there will be a huge caravan of trucks with portable toilets on board–about one hundred.

 

By  Paul Goldfinger, MD.   Editor, Blogfinger.net, Ocean Grove, NJ, USA.   This is a re-post 2021.

In 2024:  Sea.Hear.Now Festival  returned to A. Park with  Bruce Springsteen as the headliner, so the crowds will be massive.   And the many other acts are impressive.

Woe is us in the Grove.

 

2021:  This is from a prior piece on Blogfinger about the “Sea.Hear.Now”  music festival which appears for an entire September weekend,  Saturday and Sunday, on the beach of Asbury Park once each year.

It’s bad enough that we suffer parking indignities due to Asburian crowds during all the summer weekends, but now we get smothered again, but this time in September when we thought we would have OG  weekends to ourselves–for  residents, renters and visitors.

It’s interesting that this private extravaganza will shut down a large swath of north A. Park to the public.  I was down there late Friday, and the security and restrictions are reminiscent of a third world country.

Why should this event close down large portions of the Asbury beach, boardwalk and parks to the public unless admission tickets (wrist bands) are purchased?   Where is the precedent for this at the Jersey Shore, and right in Ocean Grove’s backyard.

What happened to the civil liberties of all who don’t attend but who live in AP and OG?  You can be sure that there will be gridlock parking in OG.

When they have huge events in Central Park, such as Shakespeare in the Park, it is usually free except for rare charity benefits. And most people can take a train.

Anyone can photograph in Central Park, but at this Asbury festival they will not allow Blogfinger to photograph despite our NJ press credentials.  As of Friday, all press credentials were  being denied.  Freedom of the press on public property?   They do not want any professional photographers at the events.

Most of the people attending will be from out of town. There will be congestion in small areas.  Many hotels in the region extending to Staten Island and Brooklyn are already sold out.

This event has tied up the entire area, and to what end?  Who benefits?  Who gets the huge amount of money to be generated?  Will some drop into the coffers of the City of Asbury park to benefit the citizens, the tax payers, the poor, the homeless, social programs and municipal projects?

And what about the impact on the environment including the Atlantic Ocean and Wesley Lake?

I bet Bradley the founder of AP would not approve.   And Stokes would jump out of his chair.  And the event will go on into the  night.

Why is AP allowing and encouraging this?  What is really the point of it in a  public space?   In 2012 they allowed Bamboozle, and that was a messy failure.

But Grovers, you might just want to go.  It does look like fun, and some of you did go last year. But the fact that it is a success here doesn’t mean that it should happen every year.

Why not move this thing to California or Woodstock–they have lots of space there?  Why not have it at some fairgrounds around here or some Jersey  Woodstock style property?

It’s because they want to make money by exploiting the public’s beaches, quaint towns,  and ocean at the Jersey Shore. And OG offers the most historic Victorian houses in the US.

Somebody tell them the way to San Jose.

 

DIONNE WARWICK:

 

 

Note: This post  ( now.  9/19/26) is dedicated to the memory of Pegi Costantino. It was written in 2014  for  Blogfinger.net

 

Lavender Twist Redbud. Photos by Miss Pegi. May, 2014.

Lavender Twist Redbud.  Photos by Miss Pegi. (Pegi Costantino.)  May, 2014.

By Miss Pegi

The Eastern Redbud is in bud and about to open to full bloom. This native species is a gorgeous small tree that gets about 30 feet tall and just as wide. Compared to the mighty oak, that is small. They strut their stuff alongside the native Dogwood and the lovely white flowering Fothergilla. The redbud’s flowers are followed by heart shaped leaves that flutter in the breeze and dangling pea-like pods that have their own appeal. These are harbingers of spring with brilliant blasts of color that are both bold and delicate. It is all loveliness.

Redbud blooms, but it's not a little woody.

Redbud blooms, but it’s not a Little Woody.

But here in cozy OG, a 30 ft. tree in your yard would take up every square inch of space you may have and more than likely you don’t have. So here are a few ideas that just may allow you to have the joy of these spring beauties under tight quarters. Beyond the wild and magnificent Redbud that grows in the woods, and at many nurseries, is a world of dwarfs, weepers and contorted versions that stay small and tend to grow much more slowly. These are well suited to the small garden but often more difficult to find.

‘Traveller’ is a weeping form from Texas and it only gets about 6 feet. ‘Little Woody’ (I didn’t name it!) is more of a shrub than a tree. It can easily fit into a tiny yard. Another weeping variety, ‘Lavender Twist’ is one of my favorites. The spread is narrow and pendulous so it doesn’t take up much space. If you can’t find these less common varieties locally they can be acquired through Forest Farm. Their catalog is available on-line. It is worth a peek as they have an extensive selection of plant material. ‘Ruby Falls’ has a deep burgundy leaf, is weeping and is one of the smallest varieties. It is available through Sooner Plant Farm, also on-line.

All the redbuds, from the full sized ones in the woods to the pendulous weepers will grow in full sun to part or dappled shade. Once established they are fairly drought tolerant which is great for the sandy soil we face along the shore. I do have to add that the flowers are really not red. They are a deep pink. And they are blooming right in time to help paint the town.

ALY AND A.J.

  We first met Mildred Hardeman in 2013.   Below is our article from 2013;  with an interview.

 

 

Mildred Hardeman on the porch of her Ocean Grove home. Paul Goldfinger photo July 2013

Mildred Hardeman on the porch of her Mt. Tabor Way, Ocean Grove home. Paul Goldfinger photo and video.  July 2013

 

By Paul Goldfinger, MD, Editor, Blogfinger.net.  Ocean Grove, NJ.

 

2013:

Mildred Hardeman was born in Alabama in 1921.   At the time of the depression, her family moved to Texas so her father could find work. Then they moved to Georgia where she went to high school. Her mother urged her to seek higher education, so she obtained a scholarship to an all-girls college in Athens, Georgia in 1942.

Shorter College had 200 students then. They encouraged careers for women. Today it is Shorter University and has several thousand students.

While at Shorter, Mildred got a job as assistant to a faculty member who encouraged her to move to New York City. Mildred obtained a Ph.D. in philosophy and psychology at Columbia University.

No university in NYC would hire her to teach philosophy–that field was reserved for men— but Queens College hired her to teach psychology. Over the years she taught at the college level while living in NYC.

She purchased a home in Ocean Grove in the 1970’s after reading an article about the town in the New York Times. She came by train, and it was love at first sight.

 

 

 

The historic home that she purchased required a complete remodeling, but since then she has had to do very little work on the building. At first she only came here on weekends, but after her retirement, she moved here full time, leaving her beloved New York City behind.

Mildred used to love to walk all over town, but lately she pretty much stays home. Some years ago she bought a car, but she parked it in front and never drove it. It was sold after three years.

 

 

At the age of 92, Mildred’s love affair with Ocean Grove continues. She enjoys chatting with folks walking by. When I went over to interview her, she was sitting on her porch reading all the news that’s fit to print. She was happy to tell her story to me, but she was a bit baffled when I tried to explain Blogfinger to her (sometimes I baffle myself). But we’ll bring our iPad over to introduce her to the Internet.

 

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MUSIC. What do you choose for a philosopher? We decided on “Across the Universe” by John Lennon and played beautifully by guitarist Bill Frisell. It is said that Lennon ‘s melody for this piece was influenced by his interest in Eastern religions.

 

 

 

Mildred’s home in September, 2026.  Paul Goldfinger.

 

 

Mildred’s home in September 2026. Paul Goldfinger .

Paul Goldfinger. 5/23/23, She was walking down a connecting path between Asbury Avenue and Wesley Lake. She was carrying packages. I snapped a photo in an instant and walked by her. She was too focused to see me.

 

By Paul Goldfinger,  Editor Blogfinger.net.   Ocean Grove, NJ.    Sunday. Live music on the A. Park side across the lake.

She had a bit of a smile on her face and I thought, “She’s carrying food to a party.”

I like to stroll around that Asbury Avenue lakeside neighborhood. There are some quirky spaces and people over there.

I bumped into Vince Cannavo who lives by Wesley Lake.   Vince helps us with the Town-Wide Yard Sale.   He said that the loud music coming from A. Park on Sunday didn’t bother him.

There I  met another Asbury Avenue neighbor, Tim.  He didn’t mind either.  “My friend is a drummer in the next band, and we are excited to see him,” he said.  Tim is one of those young  OG Underground types who lives around by the lake.  No wonder he likes that music!

As I stood by the lake making a video, an older woman walked up to me and stood there, keeping me company, watching the action across the lake and shaking her head. “I live a block away and I had to see what was causing that ruckus.”

So we became quick collaborators :  We commiserated and then both went our separate ways  in a southerly direction.

As I walked back from Lake Avenue to Asbury Avenue I saw the Amazon truck:  it was occupying the entire street, and rushing to it, to allow a car to get by, was that skinny girl. She had no packages now. She jumped into the truck with that smile still present and off she went.

 

TELLY SAVALAS:  “This is All I Ask.”   He recorded this in 2011;  from his album  Who Loves Ya Baby?

 

Eileen: too marvelous for words. Paul Goldfinger photo and darkroom silver gelatin print.

 

 

OSCAR PETERSON  from his My Fair Lady album.   “I’ve Grown Accustomed to Her Face.”

 

Tent Village: an empty nest. 9/15/26. Paul Goldfinger. Dusk. Click once.

 

“Es Mi Nina Bonita”.  By the Mariachi Nueva Guadalajara.

 

Founders' Park by Jack Bredin. Oil on canvas. 30x40. Painted in 2014.

Founders’ Park  by Jack Bredin. Oil on canvas. 30 x 40. Painted in 2014.  Click on image to enlarge.  Reposted from April, 2015.

Paul Goldfinger, Editor @Blogfinger.net 2017.

“Shortly after nine in the evening on 31 July 1869, a few families erected ten tents in a clearing in what is now Founders’ Park in Ocean Grove. They had gathered there to consider establishing a holiness camp meeting. Although some of the group had preferred to watch the moon rise over the ocean, Mrs. Thornley pressed them to  hold a prayer meeting, so twenty-two people huddled by candlelight in the Thornley’s  tent for the first religious service of Ocean Grove.

By all accounts, the service was a success, and the assembly consecrated the land as a permanent retreat for weary urban clergy.” *

 

The oil painting above is by Ocean Grove’s Jack Bredin, who had been working in oil for nearly 30 years and often does paintings of Ocean Grove.  This painting of Founders’ Park depicts a scene circa 1900 of a typical Sunday afternoon.  The young lad with the boat was nabbed for fishing on Sunday.

Jack said  that he hopes that the fountain can be restored.  The Historical Society of Ocean Grove has a fund for that purpose, and they accept contributions.

Jack Bredin’s oils used to be  on exhibit and for sale at the Ocean Park Gallery on Cookman Avenue in Asbury Park where they currently  (2017). have 8 of his original oils plus some prints for sale. Jack’s OG paintings always sold out.  He spends over a month on each.

He also has works on display in the Grove at the CMA offices, Grove Hall, Richard Hogan’s law office and the Blogfinger Command Center.  —

 

*This quote from the Ocean Grove Record, 7 July 1883,  was obtained from Troy Messenger’s 1999 book (University of Minnesota Press) called Holy Leisure—-Recreation and Religion in God’s Square Mile.

 

“DAVE’S TRUE STORY”   from the movie Jack Goes Boating.

 

Editor’s note  7/26/17:  The Historical Society of Ocean Grove is now resurrecting a fund drive to restore the fountain in Founders Park.

 

 

Lambertville, New Jersey, USA. This shop is on the Delaware River. Paul Goldfinger photo. Click to enlarge.

 

Bridge Street. Quaint shopping, restaurants, biking on paths.  Drive over bridge  to New Hope, Penn . Visit Washington’s Crossing Park on both sides of the river.   1 hour, 15 min from OG.   Click to enlarge.    Paul Goldfinger photo.

 

SECRET SISTERS:

 

Moonrise.   By Paul Goldfinger  © Click to enlarge. Hudson River Valley.

 

By Paul Goldfinger.  Editor Blogfinger.net. Ocean Grove, NJ.

 

Today, the glow of the moon, of the moonrise, or the moon over the ocean, or over the river….makes me think of Andy Williams.

I  first listened to his new song, “Moon River,” playing on my car radio one night in 1961. That evening I was alone in my old Plymouth driving home from a date with my future wife, Eileen.  I knew that “Moon River” had to be our song.

When I called the band leader for the wedding, he had never heard of the song, but he promised to look into it. And he did.  I always suspected that Eileen and I were among the first  to choose that song.

Johnny Mercer wrote the lyrics, and Henry Mancini the music. It was very beautiful, but I never exactly knew what a “huckleberry friend” was; somehow I imagined I knew what kind of friend that was.

Today I finally looked it up, and the Urban Dictionary says, “There are your good friends: people who love you. And then there are your huckleberry friends: people who’ve known you for years and have stuck by you and love you no matter what.

“Here are some of the lyrics from that  song which  was featured in the movie Breakfast at Tiffany’s:

ANDY WILLIAMS:

“There’s such a lot of world to see
We’re after the same rainbow’s end, waitin’ ’round the bend
My huckleberry friend, moon river, and me”

 

Only angels remain

Paul Goldfinger. Only angels remain at Tent Village. 9/15/26

 

ROSIE AND THE ORIGINALS:    “Angel Baby”

 

 

 

The sound of silence.

By Paul Goldfinger MD at Tent Village where the breeze and I were respecting each others comings and goings. 9/15/26.

It was Tuesday September 15, 2026. I was photographing at the abandoned Tent Village in Ocean Grove  at dusk after everyone had left for the season.

I was fiddling with my camera when I heard the soft  here and there murmur of thousands of insects–It’s impossible for a place like this to be totally quiet, so here is what remans after everyone is gone.   (but me.).    My camera shutter makes a sound that is barely perceptible, but I can hear it, and each click tells me that I might have experienced a visual delight with a soundtrack.

There was also the sound of a  breeze  floating by as if the historic Village was experiencing a whisper of  a vague goodbye to the renters, visitors, and  kids; and also a soft  reminiscence  of  imagined pianissimo  rehearsals emanating from the Great Auditorium where the Hope- Jones organ would ordinarily be awakening at the hands of Gordon Turk who is now probably traveling the world to experience fine organs everywhere. Dr. Turk liked to rehearse when all else was quiet outside the closed doors of that acoustically wonderful building.

So listen to this quietly and  be respectful and don’t even blow your noses.

 

Art Garfunkel:

 

 

“The Bridges of Madison County.”  from the movie by Clint Eastwood:

 

 

 

Wonderful  light in the new Odyssey coffee house in Ocean Grove, New Jersey.  The mood down the corridor is inspirational. Paul Goldfinger photo 6/24/ 2025.  All photos in Odyssey Coffee.

 

Paul Goldfinger. Editor. Blogfinger.net

I’m trying to get a handle on those  who enjoy the Odyssey coffee shop in Ocean Grove.

The bare essentials are a necessary given:  fine barrister-driven coffees;  good foods;  an  owner, Joey,  who is  a professor of classics at Monmouth University;  and a unique setting to complement the idea of an epic poem.  Who can forget Homer hanging in Joey’s place?

There is no doubting those elements, but what will be the mood at Odyssey–who will be visiting this new coffee emporium on Main Avenue in a former bank?

Will there be girls in their summer clothes, or erudite scholars, or friends to meet and greet, businesses to be promoted, poems or novels to write on laptops, or romances to grow?  Or will it be just a setting for coffee aficionados?

And finally, will there be music?

We’re not sure yet, but Joey is on the right track as he continues to re- imagine what his Ocean Grove coffee world will be like.

 

Waiting to order. What is she about?

 

The Hamptons reincarnated in Jersey?

 

Suit and tie? A rare sight in OG. What is this shtick about?  All photos by Paul Goldfinger.

 

Odyssey center fold?  After all, she has an ancient Greek sailor on her shirt. Internet photo.

 

FRANKIE RANDALL:   Will it be a New York vibe at Joey’s place?

 

 

 

 

 

Paul Goldfinger photo. Auditorium Square Park.  9/15/26. Locals get their turn.  Blogfinger.net. Click once to see what’s what.

 

“Palm Springs Weekend”   From the movie Marilyn the Untold Story composed by William Goldstein.