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Ocean Grove United demonstrating in the Grove. Mary Walton photograph. 2012

Editorial by Paul Goldfinger, MD, Editor Blogfinger.net

This article is from 2018, but we post it again now in case there are Grovers in 2023 who want to engage in unnecessary provocation based on identity politics.   There’s a lot of this going around nationally, but no sign of  “hate” in Ocean Grove  (except for an occasional sign that says, “Hate has no home here.”)

Interestingly, it is impossible to find an accepted definition for the terms “hate speech” or “hate crime” because the definition is in the eyes of the beholder.  Miriam-Webster says that hate speech is defined as “speech expressing hatred of a particular group of people.”  Even the Anti-Defamation League web site does not attempt to define these terms. They basically oppose discrimination of all types.

So this broad definition allows for the term to be used for all sorts of groups, so no particular group owns the complaint of “hate speech.”   I don’t know how the Neptune Police define “hate crime,” but they did use the term in 2019.   Their web site doesn’t clarify the term.

November, 2018:    During 2018 Mischief Night, some individuals “vandalized cars with swastikas and racial slurs in Ocean Grove.” (APP 11/7/18)  The Neptune Police Department said that they were not viewing the incident as a bias crime or anything “politically motivated.”

Deputy Mayor Carol Rizzo   (a Grover) said  ( source—APP), “The community should view this as simply ‘something that happened during Mischief Night. I don’t think we should give it anymore credence than that. ‘”

The descriptions of the event in the news did not include any anti-Semitic language, and swastikas are not necessarily anti-Semitic symbols.  Some kids, like punk rockers, may draw a swastika without thinking of Jews.    The “N word” was also found, according to the APP.

A representative, Joshua Cohen, of the NJ Regional Office of ADL said, “The swastika has become a ubiquitous symbol in graffiti, but it does not always carry “’anti-Semitic intent.’”

He also said, “A random swastika appearing in a neutral location is an entirely different proposition than compared to one on a synagogue.”

“Incidents involving the image found with no accompanying anti-Semitic imagery or writing on, say, a dumpster at a 7-Eleven or an overpass on the Garden State Parkway, fall into a category that the ADL has stopped including in its annual audit of anti-Jewish hate crimes. There is no indication that such cases specifically target Jews.”

Cohen concluded by saying, “Regardless of the specific intent, it would be a mistake to minimize the swastika. It shocks the conscience, and we all know what it is. It’s a hate symbol.”

The NTPD was going to investigate the possibility of a “hate crime,” but they have so far come up with nothing.

OGU joined  forces with the OGHOA to fan the flames of controversy when other such incidents did not occur before or since that night.

But, the OGU/HOA combined complainers consortium (CCC) have invited the Anti-Defamation League  (ADL), an international organization that fights anti-Semitism world-wide, to come here in January  2019 to “speak on this issue.”

Is this what the members of the Home Groaners want their organization to get involved with?  And why is the HOA having any sort of joint activity with the highly partisan group ironically called Ocean Grove United.

It is almost laughable for the OGU and its ally the Home Groaners to jump on this bandwagon.   Jews have been subject to all sorts of murder and mayhem since the times of the Romans,  so the Jewish people have largely developed a thick skin over minor incidents such as what the OGU and HOA are jumping up and down over in Ocean Grove.

The ADL says, “Anti-Semitism is the belief or behavior hostile toward Jews just because they are Jewish.”

Is that what’s going on in the Grove?  Doesn’t the ADL have some terrorism, synagogue shootings, or murders of civilians to spend their time with?

The truth is that anti-Semitism does not “have a home” in the Grove, and many Jewish people live  here without such concerns.

Most popular sentiment in the Grove is to assume the Halloween vandalism to be the work of ignorant out-of-towners, probably kids looking for trouble.  Most think that the incident should have been dropped as an indicator of bias in this town, and as a news story, it lasted about 24 hours, with no noise coming out of the Grove.

OGU, a group that seems to be in a deep sleep most of the time, reappears, like Brigadoon,  whenever they find an excuse to complain about bias in the Grove.  They say that the ADL meeting in January 2019  is “in response to the concerns of Ocean Grove residents.”

Perhaps they should tell us how many OG residents would like to see the big guns  (ADL) brought into the Grove to satisfy those “concerns?”

In our recent piece about the “hate has no home here” signs, we had a flurry of opinions in the Comments, but hardly any concern about the Mischief Night event.

In America we live in a free society, one which is not perfect and where hate is sometimes expressed and where such hate needs to be opposed, but Ocean Grove is not such a place.

Addendum:  This Blogfinger article below says a lot about Ocean Grove United:

OGU slams the Camp Meeting Association 2016

 

NICOLAI RIMSKY-KORSAKOV:  “The Flight of the Bumblebee”

A pro Hamas sticker was placed on the front door of a Jewish family in the Grove at 11 pm last night.  (8/2/26). Click once to see the details. Blogfinger.net

 

This family  (ours to be exact) had been flying a standard size American flag from our home and beneath it was a small Israeli  flag.  This is an acceptable way to feature two national flags together. Below is a  link to our 2023 post about our display.

 

Flag displays

 

At about 11 pm last night our Ring monitoring showed  masked man walking up onto our porch and slap a pro-Hamas sticker on the door.  You can see it above with the black, green, white and red Palestine flag along with symbols expressing Palestinian ambitions.

We don’t know if we are the only place in town where theses stickers have been stuck, but this placement suggests an anti-semitic incident.

The  Neptune  PD have responded to our complaint and they will investigate.

As a Jewish family in the Grove, we find this to be disturbing and probably an actual anti-semitic incident—never seen before in the Grove.  We don’t know if the Neptune detectives will pass this on to the Monmouth Counter  Prosecutors Office.

Meanwhile we are not drawing any other conclusions.  But given the rise in anti-semitism around the world including the US, those who care about “hate” in America will keep their eyes open in Ocean Grove.

Ironically, our  flags have been down lately due to high winds last week, but we will get them back up.

 

Eileen and Paul Goldfinger.     Editors, Blogfinger.net

“Americans We”.        US Army Band

 

Paul Goldfinger photo. Rain has closed the beach.  Monday. Aug. 2026 Blogfinger.net. Click once to enlarge.

 

Ocean Grove. Rainy Monday in August. Paul Goldfinger photo. 8/3/26. Blogfinger.M

 

EMMY ROSSUM:

 

Founders’ Park Fitzgerald Memorial  Fountain. Morning.  Sept. 14, 2020. For Ted Bell who made it all possible.    Paul Goldfinger portrait. ©. Blogfinger.net.  Click once  to enlarge.

 

 

SIR EDWARD ELGAR:   “Chanson de Matin.”   (Morning Song). By the BBC Symphony Orchestra.

 

Husband and wife, Sunday morning, Detroit, 1950. By Gordon Parks. © The Gordon Parks Foundation

Husband and wife, Sunday morning, Detroit, 1950. By Gordon Parks. © The Gordon Parks Foundation

 

Paul Goldfinger, Photography Editor @Blogfinger

Gordon Parks, 1912-2006, was a photojournalist on the staff of LIFE magazine and he often did photo essays for them about social issues.  He grew up in segregated Fort Scott, Kansas where he was the youngest of 15 children.

The magazine asked him to look at the realities of life in the African-American part of town where he lived.  He returned to his hometown to cover this story,”Back to Fort Scott,” and he got to visit his old friends and the places that he knew, such as the segregated schools there.  His images revealed the life of this community in the 1940’s before the Civil Rights movement began. He also included photographs obtained of his childhood friends who, despite their problems with society, lived lives of dignity and productivity, and he followed them to their homes elsewhere.  Many images show the families of his old friends.

Gordon Parks

Gordon Parks

Parks became famous  and he was one of the few African-Americans in the photojournalism profession.   He also was a movie director and a composer. This exhibit in Boston  (Jan. 17 to Sept. 13)  is of importance because this work was never published by LIFE magazine and thus is not well known.  The photograph above was one of the first pictures acquired by the curators for this museum show.  See link below to see a slide show of the exhibit and a video of the curator.

Museum of Fine Arts, Boston

BIG MAYBELLE

Big Maybelle

Big Maybelle

 

 

 

 

 

Tent Village.  Ocean Grove, August 2013. Paul Goldfinger photo.  Blogfinger.net

 

TOM JOHNSTON:  “Where Are You Tonight?”  From Dirty Dancing

 

 

 

Two Grovarian witches at their October 2022 coven on Heck Avenue . Paul Goldfinger photo. Blogfinger.net. Search for our collection of OG witches.

 

These sweet witches flew to the Grove on their brooms from their prior stop on the moon.

Bruno Mars has something to say about this:

 

Nagle’s, Ocean Grove, New Jersey. April 15, 2012. By Tracey James, Blogfinger staff photographer.

 

MUSIC.  Frank Sinatra with something lovely from South Pacific:

 

Mid-town mood…

NYC Street Series. 2012. By Paul Goldfinger ©

NYC Street Series. 2012. By Paul Goldfinger © Click to enlarge

 

IVY BENSON AND HER ALL GIRLS ORCHESTRA  (A 1940’s group from England)

 

Michael Goldfinger is a graduate of the photojournalism program at Boston University where he was photo editor of the Daily Free Press.

During the 1990’s he was active as a member of the photography staff at the Asbury Park Press. During that time he produced a body of work that was distinguished by strong images that told stories. He also is a photographer for Blogfinger.net .

The images will speak for themselves. Some will have a musical soundtrack, while others will not.

By Michael Goldfinger. Storytelling number one. ©

By Michael Goldfinger. Storytelling #1.

 

Anne Murray and k.d. lang:

“A Love Song”

 

Stockbridge, Massachusetts. 2010. By Paul Goldfinger ©

Stockbridge, Massachusetts. 2010. Silver gelatin print. By Paul Goldfinger ©  Click to enlarge.

 

CHARLES GOUNOD.   “Faust” ballet music. Berlin Philharmoniker

 

 

 

Evening at Kuerners. By Andrew Wyeth, 1970. Brandywine River Museum. Done with dry brush watercolor on paper

“Evening at Kuerners.”    By Andrew Wyeth, 1970. Brandywine River Museum. Done with dry brush watercolor on paper. Photo above by Paul Goldfinger from a museum reproduction.   Click left to enlarge.

 

By Paul Goldfinger, Editor @Blogfinger

Andrew Wyeth (1917-2009)  grew up at his family’s home in Chadds Ford, Pennsylvania. He loved to explore the countryside near his house.  One mile away he discovered the Kuerners Farm owned by a family from Germany. At age 15 Wyeth did his first painting of the farm, and over the next 70 years he created 1,000 works of art based on the farm and the Kuerner family.

This print is from the Brandywine River Museum.  I saw this image there and immediately was drawn to it.  I like to study paintings as they inform my photography.  In this case I felt a sudden  and startling kinship with Andrew Wyeth because had I done a photograph of Kuerners Farm, I believe I would have composed it just this way and at just that time of day.  The light of early evening is “golden light” for photographers and painters.

Andrew Wyeth wrote about this image:

“There are few studies for this because that was the year that Karl was very ill. Many evenings with the light burning there quite late, I had a foreboding that this might be the end.  

“I’d go over there evening after evening and just watch. I’d hear the water and see that light in Karl’s room, and I’d lie in bed at night thinking about that square house sitting in that valley with the moonlight casting such a strange liquid light on its side.

“The light in the window, which is pure paper, by the way, seemed to me to be Karl’s flickering soul. For me it’s a very emotional picture. I saw Helga for the first time when I was doing this.”  — 
- Andrew Wyeth

 

AARON COPLAND.  “Simple Gifts from Appalachian Spring”    The album:  An American Picnic

 

Bacall moving in Bogies direction without any cold weather to propel her.

Key West:   Bacall moving in Bogie’s direction without any change in the  weather to propel her.  (Internet photo)

 

By Paul Goldfinger, MD, Editor @Blogfinger    2020

 

A Ph.D. psychologist who lives in the Grove, collects seashells, and wears glow-in-the dark chartreuse sneakers, has evolved a hypothesis over 30 years or more having to with the behavior of women in late autumn, as the temperature grows cold.

 

He prefers to be sort of anonymous, but he is convinced that his observations, which have been consistent over the years, are true and real, even though they have never been subjected to scientific scrutiny. We’ll call him Walter after Walter Reed, MD who helped find a cure for yellow fever.

 

Walter says that his concept has its roots in human biology, specifically the procreation of the species. He refers to the mechanism as being “of mammalian origin.”  Basically the idea is that women are innately understanding that they must survive the winter and do so by finding a mate who can “keep them warm and have sex.”

 

The behavior reveals itself in a “subtle nuanced manner” since women, by nature, tend to be social and interested in the “other gender.” So what Walter has observed is that women, late in  autumn, become more friendly to men. It is an “extension” of how they normally behave, but men will find women to be more attentive to them than usual: to offer to have coffee, or to come visit, or to have conversations. Men may miss this phenomenon unless they are looking for it. I would guess that it would be more apparent to available men.

 

According to Walter, women become more agreeable, smiling more and being more polite. He sees women as being “warmer” towards men than usual as the weather gets colder.   He refers to this behavior as “controlled” but also being  “frenetic” beneath the surface, behavior which he describes as “scurrying” while, at the same time, being more sociable and personable.

 

The end result is often an increase in coupling, relationships, engagements, socializing and dating . Have any of you experienced Walter’s theory?

 

BERTIE HIGGINS.  “Key Largo:”