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047 OG Tea time at Nagle's

Tea time at Nagle’s. Open the bag and read the leaves, like Jack. Paul Goldfinger photo .  Undated.

 

By Paul Goldfinger, Editor,  Blogfinger.net. 2017

Jack Bredin, Ocean Grove activist, sat quietly at the August 28th Neptune Township Committee Meeting while waiting for the boring endless session to begin. He knew that permit parking was not on the agenda, but that a stalemate had been reached and something needed to be done.  Surely there must be a road map which would take this important matter in a productive direction.

He wrote into his legal pad: “5th time over the years…”

Former Committeemen Randy Bishop used to recall that the subject of a parking solution had come up seriously that many times in the past with no resolution, even though the matter had been studied by the Township, the HOA Parking Committee, the Parking Task Force from 2016 and, now again, it had arisen like some sort of recurrent crabgrass infestation.

Although there had been no past agreement on a solution, the idea of a permit plan was popular, and most all Grovers who weighed in felt that something should be done, especially now at the North End near Asbury.

Two weeks ago, the CMA crazily and irresponsibly announced a possible law suit over permit parking.  Do they really have the standing to push the Committee around like that?

The Committee now seems to have no way to turn.   The situation has run out of options—–the quest for parking relief for Ocean Grove had reached the end of the line.

Jack studied his pad and decided that the key to advancing the controversy is for the Committee to send the matter to the Planning Board.

Looking back, the matter never reached fruition because the HOA is not the Planning Board and does not have the resources to be one.  They should have pushed the Committee to make a proper referral instead of futzing around with it themselves.

The Township is also not the Planning Board, so it just dithers around the problem and doesn’t refer the matter.

The Planning Board established a Master Plan for the town, but it pays no attention to it, and although it has resources to pursue parking, such as planners and lawyers, it has not done so. It doesn’t even do any planning. It has become a place where dubious site plans are approved.

So, after sitting through the agenda, the public portion arrived, and about 20 Grovers went to the microphone to tell their parking horror stories. They had been  encouraged to do so by the cowardly lions at the  HOA, who sees it as some sort of strategy:  send emails so that sad Grovers can whine to committeemen.

The Mayor seemed sympathetic but promised no further progress.

Then Jack got up to say what he had been composing on his yellow pad. He suggested that the Township refer the matter to the Planning Board where proper experts can study the matter and then to hold hearings in Ocean Grove.

Stalling, snoring, dithering, tabling, thinking, looking into it, or just ignoring it are all moribund strategies.

At least Jack is pointing in a hopeful direction.

 

BEVERLY KENNEY  Tea leaves for two.   From her album This vintage now

 

 

 

Milton Edelman, Jersey Shore photographer in 1960 Ocean Grove.  Note the North End setting.

Paul Goldfinger, MD.  Editor Blogfinger.net

There are a few female Grovers who have been outspoken and don’t like our “Girls in Their Summer Clothes” series in the Grove, especially at the beachfront.

We took the idea from Bruce Springsteen who wrote a song with that name.  He won a Grammy for it in 2007.

But for those of you who grew up in the ’50’s and ’60’s, you may recall the  Police Gazette (at the barber shop) and other magazines that showed “bathing beauties.”  That was long before Playboy.

It was OK back then and it was OK  when premier Jersey Shore photographer Milt Edelman was photographing in Long Branch, Asbury Park and Ocean Grove.  The photograph above was loaned to us by a Grover whose family goes way back in town.  He came to our curbside sale and brought me this image and others which we will share.

In August 2025  the Asbury Park Press posted 50 photographs taken on the OG beach, and there were no holds barred in featuring young women in marvelous bikinis.

And then there’s the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition each year.

Some of today’s critics seem to be worried about photographing tiny women’s bathing suits at the beach, but that’s the style now, so what’s the problem?   Even our female lifeguards wear bikinis in the Grove., and their dress code is controlled why the Camp Meeting Association.

And a hundred years from today, some artists will be photographing beautiful women on the OG beach.

 

SARAH VAUGHAN:

 

 

Paul Goldfinger still from the opening scene of Dirty Dancing.

 

THE RONETTES:   from the motion picture soundtrack:   Dirty Dancing.

 

 

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“Ovation” in the Ocean Grove Great Auditorium. A beautiful moment in our town. Paul Goldfinger photo 2015.

 

Simon is a frequent contributor to Blogfinger.  He has commented on the Warrington situation and today regarding parking.  Here is the second part of his two part comment posted today in reference to parking on the North End.  But it is his sense of helplessness as a citizen that was poignantly expressed below:

“For the amount of taxes we all pay, give one parking spot for every home. This has also been said many times before with no results. We all state our opinion, go to all kinds of meeting, talk to everyone that is anyone, BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY IT JUST SEEMS HOPELESS.”

 

Paul Goldfinger, Editor  2015.  Blogfinger replies:

Simon. You have hit on a problem which has concerned me with respect to Blogfinger. We can complain all we want, for example about the North End, but if our elected officials pay no attention to our concerns, then how is our democracy to work?

Their department heads at the Neptune Twp. fortress may refuse to talk to a citizen, which has happened to me on more than one occasion.  Their Committee meetings are carefully choreographed to discourage interaction with citizens, and if you get up to speak at a meeting, they barely respond, if at all, to what you say, and they may actually get a cop to force you to sit down (ask Jack Bredin about that incident.)

There used to be a New Jersey ombudsmen, but no more. What to do?    First do not stop complaining and exercising your right to free speech.    A free press and free speech are essential to our American freedoms, and even if our voices are unheard by those in charge, we must keep on speaking.

Second, vote for somebody else at the next election and come out in force for important meetings. And if you feel that there is something amiss in local government, contact the State Attorney General’s Office.  Make sure that you monitor the  Township Committee for possible clues to corruption and signs of double standards.

But also we need a citizen organization in town with courage and forcefulness and which speaks for all of us in Ocean Grove. Note that not everyone in town is a homeowner.  The OG Homeowners Association is an enabler for  the Camp Meeting Association and for Neptune Township.  They should have insisted that the entire NERP. (North End Redevelopment Plan)  be junked, instead of providing assistance in getting it done.

Who appointed the Ocean Grove Homegroaners Association to represent all the people of Ocean Grove?   And when did their board poll their membership to get permission to make recommendations regarding the North End, and how many voted?  After all, they only get a small percent of the membership to attend their meetings.

Simon: It is not “hopeless.”

—-Paul    @Blogfinger

 

GEORGE HEARN FROM LA CAGE AU FOLLES:   “The Best of Times”

 

 

Milton Edelman, photographer 1950’s and 1960’s. Asbury Park. © Click once to enlarge the amusements.  Blogfinger.net.

The sign on the left is for the Fun House. On the right it is for the Merry Go-Round.

The bottom sign says “Any person conducting himself in a manner not consistent with Palace Amusements will be decapitated.”

So  it seems that Asbury Park didn’t tolerate having fun in the fun house back in the day.  And as far as feeling merry on the merry-go-round, well who can be merry if they’re going round and round.

Milton Edelman was a photographer who liked to record life styles in Long Branch, A.  Park, and Ocean Grove, and he loved to take pictures of girls in their summer clothes–ie bathing suits. I wonder if Uncle Milty would photograph the girls on the OG beach these days.

Here’s a link from our article earlier this month regarding Uncle Milty photographing girls at the OG North End.

 

Milton Edelman at OG North End

 

And speaking of going round and round, here’s “Run Around Sue” by Dion.

 

 

Pegi and Tom Costantino at their “Tiny Farm”  on Old Corlies Avenue in historic rural Neptune.   The barn and the house are purple. The meditation pit is behind them.     Paul Goldfinger photograph. 9/21/22. ©.  Blogfinger.net

 

Pegi comforts a wounded rooster. Blogfinger photo. 9/21/22.

By Eileen and Paul Goldfinger,  Blogfinger.net.

Pegi  Costantino is known to some of you as the Chief Woman at the Ocean Grove Woman’s Club. She is also an author and radio personality–an expert on gardening and do-it-yourselfing.  If you go to Blogfinger.net you can click on “About” and scroll down to the section on Miss Pegi.

Today we are visiting their “Tiny Farm”  to view the progress made in the last few years.

Pegi and Tom are Grovers and they have a historic Victorian home in town.  Pegi loves colors, and some years ago they had another home in the Grove, and she struggled with the HPC to get what she wanted—to paint the home a bright orange. Some of you may recall that orange house.

In the last few years she and Tom have been bringing an old farm back to life on Old Corlies Avenue– a historic rural  street in Neptune.  Across the street is an old cemetery, and Tom says that his neighbors are “quiet.”

After buying the property, one thing Pegi was sure of was  that she wanted the house and barn to be purple, and that is what occurred.

The couple have been working to redo the farm inside and out.  There is a chicken coop with two roosters and an ample supply of eggs.  They feature a huge vegetable and flower garden where Peggy has chosen some exotic plants. Pegi starts many plants from seed  in the greenhouse, attached to their home.

 

Miss Pegi at the Ocean Grove Woman’s Club. 2020.  Paul Goldfinger portrait..

Tom is a business man who works from home, so, needless to say, he is enlisted to be a farm hand and a maintenance man, and he loves those jobs.   Right Tom?  Tom also is a musician and performs with a rock duo.

 

NORMAL BLAKE    From “O Brother Where Art Thou”

 

 

Paul Goldfinger. 2005.  Nagle’s.   Ocean Grove, NJ.  Click once to enlarge.

 

 

FRANK SINATRA:

 

Ocean Grove’s Easter Parade. April 5, 2026. Paul Goldfinger. Blogfinger.net. Click once to enlarge.

SHIRLEY BASSEY.  From her album  12 Of Those Songs

 

Jean Bredin, a cross between Billie Holiday and the Easter Bunny,  Ocean Grove.   Blogfinger photo. ©

 

BILLIE HOLIDAY;   From the Woody Allen film Celebrity

 

Gasparilla Island. Florida 2014. By Paul Goldfinger ©

Our Lady of Mercy Church on Gasparilla Island. Florida 2014. By Paul Goldfinger . Blogfinger.net.  Click once to enlarge.

 

 

 

KEITH JARRETT.  “Easter Night Procession.”   From  Gurdjeff Sacred Hymns

 

You saw some of Helen Levitt’s street scenes, but here is a shot from Eileen’s  family album–Eastern Parkway, Brooklyn.

 

c. 1950. Photographer unknown, but we think it is Bernard Harkavy. Eileen is big sister.

c. 1950’s.   Photographer is Dad—Bernard Harkavy.  Eileen is big sister. Hope is little sister.  There is some drama going on, but what is it?  Re-post from Blogfinger 2013.  

 

THE MILLS BROTHERS:

 

OG boards. c 2019. Paul Goldfinger photo.  Click once to enlarge.

 

THE FIVE STATINS.  They played the Great Auditorium.

 

 

 

Paul Goldfinger. Downtown. Blogfinger.net.  Click once.

 

ART FARMER BIG BAND.  “I’ll Take Manhattan”